Sungkan
Definition & Context
Feeling unwilling or apprehensive about doing something due to a “sense of deference”, discomfort, or not wanting to hurt another's feelings.
Synonyms & Variants
ewuh
Feeling awkward, uneasy, or troubled, often in a social context or when asking for help.
malu
Feeling embarrassed, ashamed, or shy due to making a mistake, acting inappropriately, or receiving unwanted attention.
pekewuh
A feeling of unease or reluctance, often out of respect for others or a particular situation.
rikuh
Feeling uneasy or awkward due to feeling inappropriate or out of place.
segan
A feeling of fear or respect mixed with reluctance to do something.
Usage Notes or Etymology
It's used in formal or polite contexts, usually when someone feels hesitant or reluctant to do something that might disappoint others.
Real-world Usage
Saya sungkan menolak permintaannya.
English Translation
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Definition & Context
Feeling “reluctant”, hesitant, or uncomfortable to do something due to a sense of respect, “shame”, or to spare others' feelings. This feeling arises from an awareness of behavioral and ethical 'boundaries' in social interactions.
Synonyms & Variants
enggan
Unwilling; disinclined; reluctant.
ewuh pakewuh
An idiom describing a feeling of reluctance, awkwardness, or discomfort in social interaction, especially in Javanese culture.
malu
Feeling embarrassed, ashamed, or shy due to making a mistake, acting inappropriately, or receiving unwanted attention.
segan
A feeling of fear or respect mixed with reluctance to do something.
Usage Notes or Etymology
This term originates from Old Javanese, sungkan, describing a “feeling of discomfort or reluctance” due to social hierarchy or politeness norms. This concept is deeply rooted in Javanese culture to maintain harmony and mutual respect.
Real-world Usage
Aku sungkan yen kudu njaluk tulung.
English Translation
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