Nelongso
Definition & Context
Verb
A word used to describe an action, state, or occurrence.
To feel profound sorrow, misery, or suffering caused by life's hardships and pressures; experiencing a state of helpless anguish and deep emotional pain.
Synonyms & Variants
merana
Suffering from illness, sadness, or love; deeply grieving.
nelangsa
The standard Indonesian equivalent meaning nearly the same: feeling sad, miserable, and helpless. More commonly used in formal and written registers.
pilu
Very sad and moved; pitiful.
remuk
Completely shattered (of heart, feelings) due to profound sadness.
sedih
A feeling of unhappiness due to a cause (e.g., sorrow, disappointment, longing).
sedhih
A Javanese ngoko word meaning sad. Overlaps in meaning with nelongso but places less emphasis on the deep misery and helplessness that nelongso conveys.
menderita
A formal Indonesian verbal equivalent emphasizing the act of enduring suffering due to life pressures, aligning with the verbal dimension of nelongso.
susah
A more common and neutral Indonesian equivalent, but with lower emotional intensity compared to nelongso which emphasizes deep suffering.
Usage Notes or Etymology
The word nelongso originates from Javanese Ngoko, derived from the root longso or nelangsa, referring to a state of misery, suffering, and helplessness. It is commonly used in both Central and East Javanese dialects as a powerful emotional expression encompassing both physical and psychological anguish. In Javanese literary and oral tradition, nelongso is frequently associated with the condition of the kawulo cilik (common people or lower class) who bear the weight of hardship. The word has been widely absorbed into informal Indonesian speech, particularly among Javanese speakers, serving as a more emotionally resonant colloquial equivalent of the formal term menderita.
Real-world Usage
Kawulo cilik podo nelongso ngadepi urip sing rekoso. (Rakyat kecil sama-sama menderita menghadapi hidup yang susah.)
English Translation
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